Day 8 - Monday June 23
Pilgrims to Jerusalem of Past and Present
On the road again. Next stop – The Southern Wall excavations. Although it’s been 40 years for me The Kotel has even more of an effect on me. Learning the history of Israel and it reinforces how much I have to learn. Marching with Shira and singing, even though I was the bull whose fate does not end well, it was fun. But the climb up the stairs to the place where the sacrifice was given was very emotional. The ability to visualize what really happened was very moving.
Then we made our way back to the Western Wall. The experience of sharing in (watching) many Bar Mitzvahs at one time. The Kotel has a very special place in my life and heart and there couldn’t have experienced this trip at a better time in my life. Thank You SAJES.
Yad Vashem
Driving up to Yad Vashem you could sense this is a somber place of mourning, remembrance and rebirth.
You live on – give a hand and a name, this memorial to the six million individuals who died a martyr’s death at the hands of the Nazis.
All around the grounds you can see trees and plants that were planted, sculptures erected, paving the road of remembrance.
The children’s memorial was especially moving as I think of all those children – what were they thinking – how lost and desperate they must have felt.
Why didn’t the rest of the world help?!
He who saves one human life saves the world. We must never forget!
Har Herzl Cemetery
We are here at the cemetery to understand how the wars affect Israel society and how Israel decided to remember its soldiers. Josh explained how there is a connection between Yad Veshem and Har Herzl Cemetary. Shoah taught us to fight for freedom and being buried in the cemetery is the price to pay for freedom and independence. Looking around the cemetery, we noticed that the graves are uniquely Israeli, well kept, with the emblem of IDF, date the soldier was born and died, both parents names, where the soldier died and what war. We learned that one week after Yom Ha-Shoah, Israelis remember those killed in war on Memorial Day by becoming one nation in grief. In this cemetery officers are buried next to privates, which is not common in military cemeteries. This is done to reflect the camaraderie of the soldiers.
There is uniformity in the cemetery in an effort to commemorate the masses. You could not individualize the grave until recent years. Josh personalized our visit by showing us the grave of a friend who experienced basic training with him.
We were not aware that the greatest act of loving kindness is to bury someone. When a person places a stone on the grave he/she is a participant of love and kindness. There are mass graves with soldiers buried together, which remain nameless, especially those who fought in the War of Independence. The cemetery has changed and allowed more emphasis on individuality at the gravesite. In history there were collective aspirations therefore more uniformity. Israeli society is strong enough to mourn an individual.
We walked deeper into the cemetery to see the grave of Theodore Herzl. He was born a Jew, was a lawyer, journalist, and assimilated into European life. His first solution to Jewish life was conversion. The Dreyfus trial created the need for Zionism due to such anti-Semitism. Herzl started a movement and traveled to countries to get recognition for the State of Israel. He died at the age of 44 and his body was returned to Israel. We noticed that for such and important person he had a simple grave with a view of Israel all around him. The land is his monument. He managed to persuade thousands of people because of his dream.
Sitting on the lawn, in discussion, we realized that the Israeli society is very familial. The people are spirited and supportive. They know how to celebrate and mourn. When families visit graves at Har Herzl they find an environment that is aesthetically pleasing and comforting.
Day 9 -Tuesday June 24th
The Experience - How to Package and Take it Home
Our last in Israel began with a visit to Three different Ganim. The staff from TBD was fortunate to meed with Maki Aashrov who is head of the Ed. department and then visit four different classes.
We were warmly greeted by Maki who shared how Kol Haneshama (a Reform Temple) came to be. In the 1960’s American Jews moved to Israel wanting to maintain their lifestyle. At the time there was no Reform Movement. The only options were Orthodox or secular life. The vision of the people was to have women participate in the service and Kol Haneshama came to be. Soon after a nursery school was started. Today, 24 Reform congregations exist, 9 having buildings with full time Rabbis.
We learned that this congregation is meeting with the same problems and concerns as we are. How do we connect with our families and engage them in temple life?
In pairs, we visited with teachers and children in four different classes with children ranging from 2- 4+. We were welcomed and invited in with tremendous warmth. The language barrier made it difficult to communicate. We smiled a lot. A few of the teachers spoke English. What most impressed me was the way teachers handled the children. It was very touchy, feely. The children were hugged, stroked, patted in the most endearing manner. The staff did not react to everything a child did. It seemed that the children negotiated the day with just the right amount of guidance from the teachers.
I loved the manner in which food was served and shared. Both children and adults sat together in a relaxed setting. Clearly this is a culture that values children! FOOD FOR THOUGHT!! Proceed with an open mind! L’hitraot, Michelle
We were greeted by the Rabbi after we entered the Conservative synagogue. The discussion was then led by Sylvia Harezen , the early childhood supervisor for about 40 schools in the area. She was very bright and articulate as she discussed the Tali program. This program is an enrichment, which focuses on strengthening the children’s Jewish identity. Sylvia Harezen described the problem that Israel is encountering – the lack of Jewish identity in the non-Orthodox community. I visited a classroom of 3 & 4 year-old children who were playing outside when we entered. The classroom was very simple and sparce, yet home-like and welcoming. The children entered the room and sat down on chairs around the perimeter of the room and recited their prayers together from a large Siddur that the children helped to create. When one child poked another, it was handled with tenderness and few words. When the children were finished, they were told to play outside. The teacher went out after the children were outside. They were also building with blocks in the hallway without adult supervision.
The outside area was simple – a slide, a few riding toys, and a sand area. The children were able to take their shoes off outside and inside.
The teaching staff was made up of one teacher and several assistants, depending on the activity. There was a male assistant in the class who was very hands-on with the children. The teacher was very competent and gentle with the children. She loved having the same children in her class for two years and sharing their growth and experiences. I felt very welcomed and comfortable there and enjoyed my visit very much. Most of the children are not synagogue members, and the Rabbi was very excited about the input the program has on families who need Jewish education.
Visit to the JCC – OR IN ISRAEL THERE IS NO J – BECAUSE…WE ARE ALL JEWISH!!!! - THE MATNAS IN EAST TALPIOT
We had two visits to the Matnas - Kabbalat Shabbat & a typical day
Kabbalat Shabbat: We arrived at the Matnas and were so warmly greeted by Sigi, who opened her home to us. Sigi explained how the children were part of the decision making process. The had bags of gifts and pictures of flowers they had prepared for us. The children (4 year-olds) discussed and decided what should be included in those bags and what food they should serve us and participated in the preparation. We observed Shabbat with wonderful music playing throughout . Certain children participated in setting the candles, the challah, wine etc. The children sat in a circle. There was singing and celebration. We moved into another room with a Birthday Celebration, which was celebrated with the child’s family, and the celebration was in honor of the child and entire family – theses were 2 year-olds.
Okay, Tuesday visit we learned that the center is new and undergoing a process of change. We met with Sophia – the head of the Matnasim Daycare and Ires who supervises Jerusalem. She explained how the philosophy in Israel is developing towards Reggio and they also are reteaching in some cases. We asked questions about the classrooms and children concerning parents, allergies, food and curriculum. We discussed the possibility of expanding the Partnership 2000 to include our preschool children and teachers and discussed ways that would be appropriate. That we should look at our environments and see how we could include these children as our friends in the classroom and how we can create an exchange. The warmth teachers showed and how they communicated this by talking to them while they were observing impressed the teachers. They knew they were welcome. The children appeared to be more autonomous – even the infants. We all felt a connection – problems were similar, learning and changing is difficult, but it comes down to respect for the family and child, understanding who the child is by good listening and observing. It was clear that Matnas created that environment.
Abu Ghosh
Today one of our excursions took us to a village in Jerusalem called Abu Ghosh. I heard from Josh, our tour guide, that it was a friendly Arab village.
We entered the high school where we met with the Principal and Head of Regional Education, Issa Jaber.
He spoke about the many issues facing the Arabs and Jews and their coexistence.
Beit Hamikra - House of the Bible
Our last activity of our ENGAJE trip was so much fun. The hands on experience we all got was a wonderful way for children to learn Bible stories. Sitting in the ark with the cheetah hood on my head and listening to Noah, the dove and the raven made it so easy for anyone to understand the story.
This was a great way to wake us up before our culminating program and banquet.

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